Just for Men

Suspect She’s Pregnant? Step Up!

If you find yourself looking at a positive pregnancy test or even just suspect she might be pregnant, I know your head’s probably spinning. This is one of those moments that feels bigger than anything you’ve faced before. But hear me out—you don’t have to figure it all out alone. At HOPEGATE, we’ve walked alongside a lot of guys in your shoes—men trying to wrap their heads around fatherhood, responsibility, and what comes next. Our support is free, confidential, and straight-up. No lectures, no judgment. Just real talk, practical help, and a team that’s here to walk with you.

What She Needs From You Right Now

Look, this isn’t just her deal—it’s yours too. She needs to know you’re not going to disappear when things get tough. Being present doesn’t mean you have all the answers. It means you’re willing to stand with her and figure it out together.

Here are a few ways to do that:

Do This

Show Up.

Physically and emotionally. Be there for her appointments, the conversations, the hard moments. Being present speaks louder than promises.
Talk and Listen.

Don’t shut down. Share how you feel, but also really hear her out. She needs to know her voice matters as much as yours.
Get Informed.

Don’t just wing it. Learn about pregnancy, options, and fatherhood. We’ll give you tools, classes, and resources—like our Earn While You Learn program, where you can earn points toward baby gear while picking up real-life dad skills.
Ask for Backup.

You don’t need to carry this weight solo. Lean on mentors, family, or reach out to us. We’ve got guys who’ve been there and can walk with you.

Don't do this

Bail.

Walking away might feel easier now, but it only makes life harder down the road. Step up.
Pressure.

This is a decision you make together. Respect her, respect the process.
Go Silent.

Bottling things up or ghosting only creates more damage. Keep the lines open.

Why HOPEGATE Exists

Here’s the truth: being a man means owning your role when it counts. At Hopegate, we believe you can rise to this challenge. Whether you’re scared, angry, confused, or even excited—we’re here to help you sort through it. We offer free pregnancy support for men, practical classes, one-on-one mentoring, and resources to help you and your partner move forward. No strings attached. Just solid help when you need it most.

Take the

FIRST STEP

Don’t wait. Every day you step up, you’re shaping your future—and maybe your child’s future too. Reach out today. It’s confidential, it’s free, and it’s for you.

Just for Men

Suspect She’s Pregnant? Step Up!

What She Needs From You Right Now

Here are a few ways to do that:

Do This

Show Up.

Talk and Listen.

Get Informed.

Ask for Backup.

Don't do this

Bail.

Pressure.

Go Silent.

Why HOPEGATE Exists

Take the

FIRST STEP

FOUR HOPEGATE LOCATIONS

26 West Main Street, Canton, PA 17724

13 State Street, Towanda, PA 18848

116 Walnut Street, Athens, PA 18810

First Look Ultrasound & Pregnancy Center

209 West Lockhart Street, Sayre, PA 18840

Just for Men

Suspect She’s Pregnant? Step Up!

What She Needs From You Right Now

Here are a few ways to do that:

Do This

Show Up.

Talk and Listen.

Get Informed.

Ask for Backup.

Don't do this

Bail.

Pressure.

Go Silent.

Why HOPEGATE Exists

Take the

FIRST STEP

26 West Main Street, Canton, PA 17724

13 State Street, Towanda, PA 18848

116 Walnut Street, Athens, PA 18810

209 West Lockhart Street, Sayre, PA 18840

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